Inlaws moving in with us ....

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sweetpea
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Post by sweetpea » Thu Dec 08, 2016 2:10 pm

Mum had a stroke yesterday causing a massive bleed in her brain ....she was coherent until about 8pm last night where the bleed has caused such swelling she is now in a coma ....so sad that she has only had 2 weeks in her new home where she seemed so happy. ...dads leg has healed and he is doing ok all things considered. ....she is receiving care from the end of life nurses smiley-sad010.gif

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Post by MandaTK » Thu Dec 08, 2016 3:33 pm

Really feeling for you all Kara. Much love to you all xxxxx

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Post by MrsP » Thu Dec 08, 2016 8:50 pm

Bless you for keeping Elsa during this difficult time. I hope your Mum is comfortable and that you all living together helps with supporting each other xxx

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Post by sweetpea » Fri Dec 09, 2016 5:47 am

Bobs mum passed away last night xxxx

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Post by MandaTK » Fri Dec 09, 2016 3:33 pm

So sorry Kara and Bob. Much love xxx

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Post by xxlynne » Fri Dec 09, 2016 5:25 pm

Kara and Bob, 'Mum' left you knowing how much you cared and knowing your love and caring would continue for Bob's father. It helps greatly at the time of departure if your worries are allayed and your loved one is safe and cared for. Thank you for everything you both offered and are offering. Sad times heart felt love...

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Post by sweetpea » Sat Dec 10, 2016 8:35 pm

They are performing a post mortem so the funeral will be delayed until after xmas ...dad has been upbeat and keeping busy xxx

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Post by sweetpea » Fri Dec 16, 2016 5:51 am

On wed last week mum and dad went to Debenhams. .the lift was out of action so were told to use the escalator. ...when they got to the top bobs mum didnt take her feet off in time and fell flat on her face ....she knocked a tooth out , bruised her face hands and knees .....the staff Did Not call paramedics instead they got her up and put them in a staff car and bought them home 35 min journey this happened at 11 am....at 1pm dad phoned me and asked me to see her as she was very confused since the fall .....Well she was a shock to see ...blood coming from her mouth , very bruised and talking in riddles. ..i immediately phoned her GP (practice is 5 min down road ) she came out within 10 mins .....she suspected mum may have had a stroke ...she had one 18 mths ago and was now on a high dose of blood thinning meds hence quick bruising and bleeding ....she called an ambulance. ..that took 2 hrs to arrive ...but they were marvellous. ....At 530pm she went into hospital ....The following night at 930pmshe had passed away ......She hadnt had a stroke ...the fall had caused a blood vessel to erupt in her brain and had caused severe swelling ...there would have been nothing anyone could have done ....she went into a coma at 1130pm wed night so we know she wouldnt have suffered ....
It wasnt a few weeks ago we nearly lost dad due to an auyseum in his leg going ......
She had 90 yrs of a good life xxxx

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Post by sweetpea » Thu Dec 29, 2016 10:19 am

Bobs mums funeral today ...bobs dad has been coping very well xxx

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